You can’t control who you fall for. This means that sometimes, you’ll want to have a relationship with someone you really shouldn’t. For some guys, this happens when they spend a lot of time interacting with a cam girl. Popular belief is that men only go to cam sites to watch women get naked and perform sex acts. While this is mostly how it works, there’s also another side to the sites. People also gather in chat rooms on these sites to chat and hang out with the cam models which means that the interaction isn’t always sexual. Given this, it’s not all that surprising that sometimes a model and a customer will fall for each other. If you’re one of the lucky few this has happened to, you’ve probably given a lot of thought into how you can make this online relationship turn into a real one. You need to be careful, though; if you don’t approach this right, it might scare her off.
Talk to Her off the Site
If you’re going to try to take things to the next level, you need to remove your existing relationship from being restricted to the cam site where she works. Ask her if she’d be willing to take your chats off site and if she’d want to communicate over Skype or another instant messaging program. You could also ask her for her social media info and talk to her there. And if you’re really brave, ask if you could call her sometime. If she’s okay with taking this step, it means that she might be okay with engaging in an actual relationship with you. However, don’t push for too much too fast. Take it easy, one step at a time.
Try the Hypothetical
Once you’ve friended her on social media/talked to her on an IM, it’s time take the next step. Some people enjoy daydreaming about what could be, which means that it might be a good idea for you to ask her a bunch of hypothetical questions about where she’d ideally like to see your relationship going. Indulging in this kind of thought often leads to the desire to see it happen, which means she’ll be more inclined to head that direction the more she thinks about it.
Ask If She Wants to Meet in Person
This could possibly be the biggest step in making your relationship a real one. However, this doesn’t mean you should ask her this right away. Take some time to get to know her by talking to her outside the site. Once you feel comfortable enough, it’s time to ask if she’d be willing to meet you in person. You should plan it out so she’ll feel safe-she deals with a lot of crazy dudes in her line of work, so she’ll want to make sure you’re not a psycho creeper. Offer to meet her in a public place of her choosing, and for extra brownie points, tell her to bring a friend if it will make her feel safer. If she says yes, it should be all downhill from here.