It’s completely normal to log into a cam site after a long day to blow off some pent up sexual steam. That’s the entire reason these sites exist, after all. It’s also completely normal for guys to have their favorites in regards to the cam models. After all, everyone has their type when it comes to the opposite sex. However, it’s not entirely normal for the customers to fall for the cam girl they’ve been getting shows from frequently. That said, it does happen. When it happens, though, it doesn’t mean that true love is about to blossom. In fact, when a guy falls for the cam girl he’s been seeing, it can often lead to disaster on the emotional front. In order to prevent that from happening, it’s important to be able to recognize the warning signs that indicate you’re becoming way too attached to your fave cam model.
You Pay for Sessions That Aren’t About Sex
This is probably the number one indicator that maybe you’re thinking about a cam girl in a manner that’s not all about sex. If you’re willing to fork over tokens just to be able to talk to her about random crap, it means you feel a connection to her that is beyond the physical. While you’re not the first guy to do this it doesn’t mean that it’s a good idea. In fact, if you think about it, it’s a really bad idea. It means you’re paying good money for a woman to listen to you when in reality you could probably call up a friend and tell them the same stuff for free. If you find yourself tempted to pay for a private show just so you can vent to a cam girl, it might be time to take a step back and remove yourself from that situation.
You Try to Talk to Her off the Site
Again, this isn’t unheard of, but it’s not necessarily a good idea either. If you’ve been trying to get a cam girl to friend you on an instant messenger or through social media just so you could flirt to her on even footing, it’s a good sign that you’re thinking of her as prospective relationship material. Keep a couple things in mind when you reach this point: A) you’re probably not the first dude to try and get her to do this and B) even if she does accept all your friend requests, it doesn’t mean she’s doing it because she’s falling for you. If she becomes your friend, you’re probably going to discover that she’s friends (and flirts) with tons of guys because she is a beautiful woman who takes off her clothes and touches herself for money online. It’s probably not going to be the start of a beautiful relationship like you’d hoped for.
You Get Jealous
If you get jealous of a cam girl, you need to take a moment to rethink things. She’s a cam girl, which means that she does sexual things on webcam for money because it’s a business. It’s how she earns a living. Expecting her to not to do this for anyone but you is not only ignorant, but a little delusional. If you find yourself getting jealous because your cam girl of choice is giving private shows to other guys, you’re getting in way too deep.