Cam sites aren’t something you have to participate in alone. Whether it’s because you feel guilty about having a sexual time without your girlfriend present, or if you just want to bring her in on the fun, enjoying a cam show with your female partner can actually be just what the doctor ordered when it comes to the bedroom blues. Even if you aren’t having a sexual rough patch, it never hurts to add a little spice to your bedroom life. Since turning her on to sex cam sites doesn’t sound like too bad an idea, it’s about time you learned just how to do it and be successful.
Talking about doing something new, such as visiting a cam site together, can be stressful and lead to a very anxious evening if the moment isn’t right. In order to completely turn her on to the idea you’ll have to talk about the activity first. Something like mutual cam site viewing isn’t something that you just do spontaneously due to it being something many women find to be uncomfortable or misogynistic.
Don’t right out ask her to watch with you. Ask her how she feels about it and she’ll get the hint. If she’s open to the idea, then talk about maybe participating in some streams together and see how she takes that. If she’s not happy with the idea, it may take some discussion for her to completely warm up to cam site viewing.
If just mentioning the idea and discussing the activity isn’t what does the trick, it’s time to start explaining to your girlfriend all the benefits you can take away from watching a cam show together. Some may try to shut you down, saying that’s just what all men say or something to the same effect. Instead of getting into an argument about your intentions, simply explain the benefits that do exist. You can learn about each other sexually, invite someone new into your bedroom (so to speak) without cheating or getting physically attached, and also explore new sexual techniques after seeing them demonstrated. Get creative and try to make the activity personal. The more closely it applies to your relationship, the more likely she is to agree.
Getting Her Into it Slowly
Once you’re into cam sites together, it’s important to start the process slowly. Don’t just go right for a hardcore site with a lot of people being needlessly vulgar, unless you both happen to be into kinkier things. Go to a cam site that’s very basic, offering a vanilla-flavored service to customers. This will be how you test the water. Remember, you both need to be able to crawl before you can walk. Even if you’re already running, she needs to take those first baby steps before you match each other in speed.
If she does enjoy a more vanilla cam experience, ask if she’d be into turning things up a notch. Know what your limits are and how to safely test them without forcing her to watch things she would rather not.