Whether you’re a woman in a straight relationship or a man in a gay one, you know that your bedroom life can always be turned up a notch. You may be suffering from a sexual drought, or maybe your sex life is already pretty rowdy but could use some extra fire power. Either way, in any scenario, introducing cam sites into your bedroom routine couldn’t hurt, and it should at least be worth a try.
Most men are eager to jump at the chance to try out something new and sexy, but not ever member of the male gender follows this stereotype. If you think your man won’t be too keen on the idea at first, learn how to approach the subject with a gentle hand so he’s more apt to say yes and enjoy himself.
Talking to Him
Before you do anything else, prepare yourself to talk about enjoying the activity together. Your boyfriend will appreciate the effort you put into asking him about his sexual preferences and whether or not he’d actually be into watching cam streams together. However, don’t immediately blurt out your request. Lead into the question. Unless your partner won’t take the hint, bringing up the topic in such a way will give them the idea. You want his honest voice, not just something he’ll say to please you.
Depending on how they answer, you can proceed in one of two ways. If he’s down to have a cam site party, then congratulations. If he isn’t comfortable or sure, some more direct tactics should be used.
Exploring the Sexual Benefits
If you find that perhaps your boyfriend isn’t sure about whether or not he’d be into cam site participation, try to explain the benefits of watching streams together. There are actually a lot of things couples can take away from watching cam streams together. Most importantly, exploring new sexual material stimulates bedroom creativity. Using cam sites can also give you a 3D, live idea about how to try out different positions, weird kinks you wouldn’t be brave enough to try on your own, and other ways of having fun in bed while not actively participating.
Also, explain how cam sites can help increase arousal and be included in foreplay. Many men and women like to fantasize about strangers and new partners, and a cam site is the perfect way to make that fantasy come true without actively cheating on a lover.
Deciding What You Want and Need
You’ve finally convinced him to try out cam sites with you, so now it’s time to figure out what you specifically want and need from a cam site or girl. Have a conversation about what you want in a girl, such as a new way to experiment sexually, or what she needs to look like or do in order for you to be aroused together. Getting what you want on the table can allow for an open dialogue, leading you to easily find a site and performer that meets both of your sexual needs.